I met my friend two years back and we clicked the first time we met. We become good friends, often text each other. We both knew we couldn’t have anything beyond the friendship line. She was madly attracted to me, oh the feeling was mutual. We talked about our feels and possible boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, but we were both involve and loved our partners.
Our first sexual encounter was at her place. We decided to buy pizza and watch movies. We were in her bedroom. Half way through the movie we started to kiss and soon were naked. The sex slow and great. Best sex I have ever had. Then from there we would send each other filthy text and she would come over to my place or I would go to her place and have sex.
Our separation relationship continued. Our relationship was only sexual as we didn’t want our other friends to find out about us. Because we knew it won’t end well, as our friends were very closes to our separate partners.
Two years later we decided to end the “friends with benefits” thing, as her boyfriend at the time suspected we’re having a thing.
Today I keep asking myself did were we cowards not to invest our feels in to this “relationship” because we had so much respect for each other? We still friends and we don’t send each other sexy texts or have sex. I don’t see a problem with having a friend with benefit, as long as you both know not to get feels involve and be responsible.